BC Council for Families

A Boomer’s Guide: Intentional Grandparenting. Edwards, P. and M. J. Sterne. Toronto: McClelland&Stewart Ltd., 2005

“Provides child-centred principles to guide decision-making as modern grandparents. At the heart of this approach is the notion of intentional grandparenting, a process for planning ahead and taking deliberate action to be the kind of grandparent you want to be. The authors identify the challenges and offer practical, parent-friendly advice to help boomers become happy and effective grandparents” (amazon.ca).

The 12 Rules of Grandparenting: A new look at traditional roles and how to break them. Kettmann, Susan M. Checkmark Books 2000.

“Examines each rule of grandparenting and seeks to clarify, explain, and rewrite the "book" on what to expect from grandparents and, perhaps more importantly, what not to expect.  Empowers grandparents to develop their own strategies so that they can have a positive impact on their grandchildren's lives” (amazon.com).

 Becoming a Grandmother: A Life Transition. Kitzinger, Sheila. HarperCollins, 1996.

An accessible guide through a major life passage.  Chapters include “Images of the Grandmother,” “The Reluctant Grandmother,” and “Grandmother Skills.” 

The Grandparent Guide: The Definitive Guide to Coping with the Challenges of Modern Grandparenting, Kornhaber, Arthur.  Contemporary Books, 2002.

”From interracial families to adopted children, same-sex parents to surrogacy; this comprehensive title covers the new challenges and new joys of being a grandparent today” (amazon.com).

Becoming a Better Grandparent: A guidebook for strengthening the family.  Strom, Robert and Shirley Strom. Sage Publications, 1991.

Offers a way to unite the views of three generations, through communication and strengthened family relationships.  Covers problem solving, self-evaluation and observation skills, and intergenerational conversations.  Available at the BCCF library: HQ759.9 S77 1991

A Boomer's Guide to Grandparenting.  Zullo, Allan. Andrews McMeel Publishing, 2004

“Helps grandparents relieve the stress of grandparenting and make the most of limited time. Offers guidance and recommendations to fit the boomer sensibility, covering topics such as: How to define the grandparenting role for a new generation; The latest trends in child care; How to work in harmony with your children and their spouses; High-tech grandparenting; Grandparenting and the single-parent household.”(amazon.com)